Thursday, July 3, 2014

Patience my best friend in life

Patience? Do you seriously have the patience to bear with me the way I act? or the way I do things? Do you truly have the desire to wait and listen to the things that are about to happen? Or just want to get it done and off? What's next then?

Patience is something we need to have in us in regardless of age and gender, because it take great patience and endurance to get what want if we want it to grow in the long run. Whether its a particular event, person, business or relationships. Being patient truly makes the difference. Its always easy to say why don't I take this short cut? Wont it be easier and faster for me to gain what I want? Sometimes having the short cut does benefit us in the short run but in the long run NO. We will suffer the consequences one day. Its simple, when you don't really take the time to understand something and jump into conclusions, we under or  over estimate the situation and we would have missed out something greater.
No matter how well we think we are prepared for the situation without first any understanding of the situation, we will eventually fail. Because we didn't take the time to learn, to make the hard work into discovering the ways that can be taken. We thought it would be easy.

Really with patience comes wisdom, there is where we tackle our problem of falling down blind. When we are patient sometimes we can avoid trivial things which we fall into if we were hasty. When we have patience that's when faith kicks in. Faith to trust that God is in control and we are not to rush into things.

 Being patience do pay off when the timing is right, because God have provided this way for you.

Sometimes when we rush into a plan or an idea,without proper understanding we end up being frustrated and drained because we are striving for things we aren't really prepared for. In the end we burn out. When we have patience we draw a big picture for ourselves, we take time to place each piece of the puzzle. Yes time can be a factor but once you have grasp the understand and build the foundation its worth it. Because you know that you have given a good fight.

So being patience does pay off, we know nothing can mess with us because we have the knowledge and the faith in what we are doing whether it would be work skill or relationship. Naturally we will be confident because the foundation is already there.

 Having the passion is not enough when we don't have the heart to learn or the patience to learn, we feel troubled as we see the clock ticking, we see our friends ahead of us and where are we? We are always striving to achieve something in this life time.
What's better to have the wisdom of the life time gained or just a moment of fame that will last a few years then vanish in time.


Honestly, sometimes its not easy to see others over take us being better then us, making us feel left behind but when we are truly prepared and have passed through a certain time period of patience and having the understand what is need to be done, in the end those who we thought were ahead of us is now behind us because we took time to listen, to understand, to learn, to detail, and to gain the experiences. Imagine if we just rush into it, we already lost the battle before even it had began. The half of the war is only won by those who truly take the time to understand and plan.

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